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You are correct that Jock and Ellie can't be responsible for some of these specific actions by JR, but they do have to be accountable forJock did somewhat take responsibility for JR when he told Bobby, “maybe it is my fault. I taught JR everything he knows. But I never taught him when to stop.” But JR is a full grown man. You can’t continue to blame your parents when you’re doing bad deeds in your 40’s. He treated his wife like crap. Was that Jock’s and Mill Ellie’s fault too? He got involved with a terrorist which could have started WW3. That’s Jock’s and Miss Ellie’s fault too.
As for Miss Ellie. She even admitted that she let JR go too soon. She also said that JR and Bobby was more Jock’s and Gary was hers. She also told Jock that “you might have loved Gary, but you never cared for him.” You get on Miss Ellie about not caring for JR, which isn’t true, but what about Jock seemingly not giving a damn about Gary?
his psychological development which resulted from their parenting choices.
JR's treatment of Sue Ellen and his multiple affairs would seem to be the result of a man who was denied parental affection and approval,
which changes the a person's psychological development. I think that a psychologist would find that these factors change who a person is and becomes.
Jock's treatment of Gary was not so great either, I agree. I still think there is a lot to be explained about how Gary and Valene
became estranged from Lucy. Where was Miss Ellie's maternal care for Gary then?
The only times I thought that Miss Ellie cared about JR was the two that he was shot.
I still think Miss Ellie was a self-righteous hypocrite who ignored multiple bad deeds by Jock and JR as long
as she could continue her life of wealth and privilege.
Again, you make valid points. I think that there are more layers to the analysis.
