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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Laurie!" data-source="post: 177693" data-attributes="member: 2210">When Cliff went to meet Pam that was after years of exhaustive surgeries and as the story goes, she was dying and that's why she didn't return at that point.  Seems pretty realistic (if you ignore that she wouldn't have survived in reality) and certainly not pigstick nutty as Duffy said.I'm not complicating it at all.  You were taking Duffy's side that Pam was nutty for leaving Bobby.  I was explaining how it's human nature for a mother to want to shield loved ones from hurt and Pam had established the hurt from losing her would be less than enduring her surgeries with her.  It's completely normal...much like Bobby pushing Jenna away when he was less than perfect in his mind.</blockquote>