On the subject of viewer manipulation, a few key Sopranos scenes come to mind.
After Dr Melfi is raped, you’re willing her to tell Tony about it and for him to then mete out his own brand of justice on her attacker: it would provide a catharsis for both the viewer and the victim, and would be the ideal way for Melfi and Tony to finally become something more than doctor and patient. But she doesn’t.
Then when Christopher’s girlfriend Adrianna, whom all the characters love, is forced to become a snitch, you’re willing for her to somehow escape her grisly fate after her ‘betrayal’ is discovered. But she doesn’t.
Then there’s the final scene of the series which apparently annoyed a lot of people but I really loved.
In each case, you could argue that the programme makers are deliberately toying with audience expectations and then subverting them at the last minute, or you could argue that they are simply being true to those characters and how they would naturally behave in that world - as opposed to how they would behave in 90% of TV dramas. And I think both arguments would be valid.
It reminds me of the Undertones, who didn’t want to have an image like every other band so they went onstage in their everyday clothes. But then that ‘anti-image’ became their image by default.