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Message: <blockquote data-quote="Snowcat" data-source="post: 351342" data-attributes="member: 51404"><p>Really? Im not sure I would. I would want to understand what happened & why he didn’t tell me. Was it one of those things where you were young & stupid. I’ve been married over 15 years. my heart and my husband’s heart are fixed on each other. After 40+ years, I don’t know that I would care about previous relationships unless it was affecting our lives now. I posted a thread about this the first time I saw these episodes. I thought Miss Ellie was mean to Jock. Amanda was mentally ill. He couldn’t take care of her. It didn’t matter how much Jock supported her with the mastectomy. She kept rejecting him. At least latter, she realized how she acted. She told Clayton she was unkind to Jock. Before Pam ran away, Bobby was talking to Miss Ellie about how to support her. She said be patient with her & keep telling her you love her, just like your daddy did with me. To be fair to ME,  a mastectomy is traumatizing, especially back then. I don’t know if they had the prostheses or reconstruction options we have today.</p></blockquote><p></p>