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Message: <blockquote data-quote="the-lost-son" data-source="post: 385215" data-attributes="member: 672">Grieving doesn't have to do with logic or being a nitwit. Everyone who suffered a major loss knows that to some extent.Many marriages for example don't survive if a child dies. It's such a mix of different emotions which in retrospect are hard to capture.Lady Di's death is documented pretty accurately - it was the driver who drank too much. But as he died on site as well, one needs so. to blame.Prince Harry in his memoirs blames the journalist chasing the car. According to other sources (which have been included in the new season of "the crown") Prince William blamed (at that time) his father for the failing of his parent's marriage and for Diana being in Paris in the first place.Grief often shows itself as anger,  frustration or even hate.In Pam's case it was quiet understandable for me that she was looking to blame somebody, in this case Bobby Her mother was dead, Cliff was devastated, one tends to blame the ones who are still there and most closest.Of course, that doesn't mean it was logical (which it wasn't).The same argument can be made after Cliff's suicide attempt and Rebecca lashing out at the Ewings.I just wish Cliff would have stayed in coma and we would have gotten Rebecca in full beast mode for +/- a full season.</blockquote>