It’s odd that none of them gathered to watch a football game in tv. They mentioned being cowboys fans a few times, but mentioning it was the limit.
Would watching the Ewings watch a football game on Tv seem like something that you'd find entertaining? The only had about 48 minutes a week, so using some of that time to watch them watching TV seems like a less than optimal use of those 48 minutes. You could say that maybe seeing them swimming in their pool wasn't the absolute best use of their time either,but then at least we got Pam in a bathing suit. Never a bikini because Pam was very modest and I guess she'd have found a bikini too revealing, but she still looked great in her one piece bathing suits. Jenna wore a bikini and looked amazing, so it wasn't a thing with the network not allowing bikinis.
I’m not sure it’s about whether the visitor felt comfortable. It’s difficult to explain. I just don’t think I would have felt comfortable staying for very long at Southfork.
Even though it was a large house, i think it would have felt small. Everything just seemed so formal.
Oh they were formal. It looked to me like they took pride in that and I've gotta say I admire that. They dressed nicely for dinner and they all had dinner together. It's show of respect for the meal they've been blessed with and a show of respect to everyone else that one person wouldn't show up at the dinner table in a jeans and a t-shirt. It says: This is a special occasion, one that makes us feel like wanting to wear good clothes out of respect for each other, for the the privilege of having this nice meal and sharing it with the people who men the most to us.
Also realize Dallas started in 1978 and people used to have higher standards for their appearance. It used to be that nobody would consider getting on a place without dressing nicely for it. They would have felt undignified, maybe even rude, to wear jeans and a t-shirt for a commercial plane flight. Standards for personal appearance have gotten very lax over the last 40 or 50 years. People in general don't take the pride in their appearance they once did. Ideas like dignity and being respectful have been overtaken by a desire for people to feel as comfortable as possible, no matter how that makes them look to people around them.
When stores have to have signs that instruct people to not enter the store without a short and shoes, that tells you that we've gone as far towards the "comfort' side of things and as far away from the dignity and respect side of things as we possibly can. When was the last time when the customer service people in a store referred to you as "Sir" or Ma'am"? I think when you stopped hearing those words, the downhill slide was well underway. It's even gotten to where complete strangers will often address each other in a way where they presume to be on a first name basis. that's quite a presumption. I don't know what it would take to get people interested in setting higher standards for themselves. We may be past the point of no return.