I can totally see that, and let's face it, the way some of these things took place, like Sue Ellen and the sobriety, were so much better executed than when they needed to 'just make them happen again' the following season. Only, I truly think Sue Ellen deserved better than J.R., and to have her morph into someone he could respect in the dream season.. I like that, but would have rather she try it on her own, or with someone new, not fall, once again, back into the vicious cycle. Granted, was that realistic? Probably
While I do think the 9th year could have been a good last season for the show, I would have much rather have the show end with Bobby and Pam reuniting(in Swan Song), than her and Mark Marrying. However, as it stands, the show didn't ultimately end with either being the case, Soo.. What a mess.