I didn't feel that way.
DALLAS has big driving background music and emotive close-ups that clue you in on how significant something is, or how sad or ominous or whatever. One is constantly and obviously being manipulated; that's part of the enjoyment. THE SOPRANOS and MAD MEN adopt a more neutral stance.
Background music is a score. Any high budget drama should have it. All movies have them, don't they?
Manipulation of emotions is something all the great actors do, they're selling the emotion they feel through their facial expressions, their body language, etc.
Manipulation of emotions is something great directors like Hitchcock did. When a scary scene happened, there was scary music. It enhances the overall effect.
Dallas still let you decide whose side to take. Look at the vast difference in opinions in the threads about Bobby and Pam's breakup on season 6. Lots of people felt sympathetic to Bobby and lots felt sympathetic to Pam. Most of us probably felt some sympathy towards each but primarily sympathetic to one or the other.
In Jock vs Miss Ellie over him adding Ray to the trust fund without telling her, that led to a huge grudge on Miss Ellie's part. We were free to agree with her or with Jock. Personally I felt that he should have told her in advance. Jock made the first mistake, but her reaction was so far beyond what was reasonable that I eventually sympathized more with him. Then she came around to his way of thinking and ended up loving Ray as if he were her son, so the trust fund issue became a moot point.
When JR began cheating on Sue Ellen, there's no justification for cheating, ever, so of course I took Sue Ellen's side. Later they both cheated on each other and I thought they were equally at fault for not getting a divorce and making John Ross grow up in an environment where he would learn that apparently what he saw between his mom and dad, the intense bitterness, the lack of affection, was what love looked like and was how love should be. That was unconscionable, equally from JR and Sue Ellen, so I took John Ross' side.
I always used my own values in deciding how I felt. I never felt that I as being persuaded to take the side they wanted me to, anyway. If they had, I wouldn't have liked that. If there's one thing I hate in movies and tv shows, its the writers and directors trying to "teach us something." That's such arrogance. It's so sanctimonious. What makes them qualified to teach us anything? I go to a movie to be entertained, not to be indoctrinated into the director's system of ethics and morals. I think that, "movies trying to teach s something" was a thing in the 70s. I don't know if it's done much anymore. I sure hope not.
You mean you didn't hope that law and order would prevail and take down the Sopranos crime group?
May I ask what made you like the mafiosos more than the men and women risking their lives to keep those types in prison where they belong so they can't rob and extort honest, hard working citizens?