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Long Lashes

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How much snow do you get over there in the winter? How bad does it get? I remember it seeming like you got buried with snow last year, I think?
It varies from year to year, sometimes we get hardly any and other years we get heavy snow followed by freezing temperatures so the darn stuff won't disappear , Ooo how I hate, hate driving in it :bang:.

Also we live in the north of the UK and our weather tends to be more harsh ... sorry DFF, I haven't really answered your question :lol:



We never know what’s going on with people. I see so many people every day and most are pleasant but some? Wow! But I try to remember that everyone has problems and that’s how it comes out sometimes.
Yeah, I know what you mean. Some people can become so bogged down with their own problems that maybe they don't realise how rude they're being to others ... that's no excuse though. I know I'm not perfect but if I'm feeling down or going through a hard time I do try hard not to let it show, if anything I just become quieter.



DFF is nice to everyone but he has no problem reminding someone that there’s no reason to get nasty.
I think that's fair enough.



And that usually works. And if it doesn’t I run.
:coffeelaugh:
 

Long Lashes

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No, what ur saying makes sense. But actually DFF is a little different. Believe it or not I’m not the biggest morning person. It takes me awhile to get into gear. I wake up feeling down; always have, always will. So when I get to work it takes me awhile to feel comfortable. But once I’m on the road I’m fine. I can’t wait to get out to my route. Then I’m much more sociable.
I'm glad your day starts to brighten as the time passes. I'm not much of a morning person myself, but mines down to needing a lot of coffee to wake up my brain.


Thank you Lashes!! I really appreciate that. He’s home now and is doing well but he’s being very difficult. Hates having to follow a diet and gives my stepmother a very difficult time. She’s a saint but I think he’s driving her to commit murder. But it’s understandable cause he’s been through a lot and I think he’s scared.
Its good to hear that he's improving and fortunately his wife sounds very patient, at least he is being well looked after.:)


Last year was a very depressing holiday season for a lot of us. It was tough being alone thanksgiving and then Christmas so this year I’ve made it my business to enjoy the holidays, no matter how busy it gets at work.
Good for you :D and I aim to do the same.




I’m still getting over someone myself and every time I turn around someone at work is trying to fix me up and I appreciate it but I just need my space right now.
It must get annoying when others are trying to fix you up, although in a way its a kind of compliment, because it sounds like they must think you'd be a good catch for someone .


I can’t stand nosey people.
:eck::eck::eck:



. Well, except for you of course Lashes.
Phew! Thank goodness for that :laughing:
 

Long Lashes

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The naughty but cute Owl keeps popping back to the nest ....

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He seems to have made himself at home.



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Liberty and Freedom are going to have their work cut out persuading him to leave .
 

DallasFanForever

Telly Talk Supreme
I'm glad your day starts to brighten as the time passes. I'm not much of a morning person myself
DFF can be a little snippy early in the morning and it does bother me. Luckily the people I work with understand me and know me long enough to know I don’t mean it. I guess we all have stuff we’ve been through and I wake up thinking about certain things unfortunately.

mines down to needing a lot of coffee to wake up my brain.
You know, you might not believe this but I hate coffee. Never liked it. And I’m the only person I know that feels this way.

Its good to hear that he's improving and fortunately his wife sounds very patient, at least he is being well looked after.:)
Thank you Lashes!! I really do appreciate your concern. It means a lot right now, trust me my friend.
 

DallasFanForever

Telly Talk Supreme
It must get annoying when others are trying to fix you up, although in a way its a kind of compliment, because it sounds like they must think you'd be a good catch for someone .
It’s a little bit of both I guess, but I know they mean well. I just get a little overwhelmed by it all sometimes.

Phew! Thank goodness for that :laughing:
Oh don’t worry Lashes! You have a free pass to be nosey.

It varies from year to year, sometimes we get hardly any and other years we get heavy snow followed by freezing temperatures so the darn stuff won't disappear ,
I understand. Well at least every year isn’t dreadful.
 

DallasFanForever

Telly Talk Supreme
Ooo how I hate, hate driving in it :bang:.
That was the main reason I think I left Upstate New York. We used to get pummeled with snow up there. I loved it as a kid but once I started driving in it every day I realized it wasn’t for me anymore.

Also we live in the north of the UK and our weather tends to be more harsh ... sorry DFF, I haven't really answered your question :lol:
Yes, I know the weather is worse in the northern part of the UK. That makes sense obviously. And yes you answered my question and even a few I didn’t ask Lashes!

(Just kidding)

Some people can become so bogged down with their own problems that maybe they don't realise how rude they're being to others ... that's no excuse though
I agree. There’s no excuse for being rude. Unfortunately I think it’s getting worse every day in this world now. I hope I’m wrong.
 

DallasFanForever

Telly Talk Supreme
I know I'm not perfect but if I'm feeling down or going through a hard time I do try hard not to let it show, if anything I just become quieter.
I will get very quiet as well when I’m down. I try not to let it show but I guess it does sometimes. I don’t get rude or mean but I’ll get sarcastic. But then I notice the sarcasm actually makes people laugh and that eventually ends up making me feel better cause then I know they’re not taking it personally and if they’re laughing then I shouldn’t be down to begin with. Did that make any sense Lashes cause I’m re-reading what I just said and I have no clue what it means.
 

Long Lashes

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DFF can be a little snippy early in the morning and it does bother me. Luckily the people I work with understand me and know me long enough to know I don’t mean it. I guess we all have stuff we’ve been through and I wake up thinking about certain things unfortunately.
When our minds wander I find its always worse last thing at night and first thing in the morning, well it is for me. It sounds like you work with some decent people :)




You know, you might not believe this but I hate coffee. Never liked it. And I’m the only person I know that feels this way.
Hate coffee?!? :eck: ... Lol! Its my favourite drink ever! I even like iced-coffee, coffee cake, coffee chocs etc... its not good really having all that caffeine, but I'll take my chances.

Do you drink tea instead DFF?



Oh don’t worry Lashes! You have a free pass to be nosey.
This is music to my ears :loony: ... not that I need encouraging .
 

Long Lashes

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That was the main reason I think I left Upstate New York. We used to get pummeled with snow up there. I loved it as a kid but once I started driving in it every day I realized it wasn’t for me anymore.
We often get to see the snow and freezing temperatures in New York on our news, wow they do get it bad there. Someone once told me that whatever weather New York has .. we usually follow with similar weather a week or two later, not sure how true this is?



. And yes you answered my question and even a few I didn’t ask Lashes!
:coffeelaugh: : ... are you saying I talk too much?



Just kidding)
I know you are ... :Clol:



I will get very quiet as well when I’m down. I try not to let it show but I guess it does sometimes. I don’t get rude or mean but I’ll get sarcastic. But then I notice the sarcasm actually makes people laugh and that eventually ends up making me feel better cause then I know they’re not taking it personally and if they’re laughing then I shouldn’t be down to begin with.
I'm terrible because I find sarcasm very funny, in fact I think its my favourite type of humour :giggle: so I would be laughing too.



Did that make any sense Lashes cause I’m re-reading what I just said and I have no clue what it means.
It was as clear as mud ....... :jk:
 

Long Lashes

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Good news! :hats: Liberty and Freedom were spotted on the nest again yesterday ...




Here's Liberty with a stick, she looks like my Barney here :lol:

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Freedom arrived to give her a hand ...

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Some eye-to-eye contact :BL:

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And finally, I love this one with the autumn colours in the background ..

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We don't usually get to see this do we? Usually we go from winter to summer and then that's it. Seeing autumn is fab :D
 

DallasFanForever

Telly Talk Supreme
When our minds wander I find its always worse last thing at night and first thing in the morning,
I would definitely agree with this. I find it’s most like that for me when I go lay down at night and then when I wake up. Maybe I should start sleeping sitting up LOL
Who knew that was the problem all these years?

It sounds like you work with some decent people :)
I’m very lucky. It’s like any place. Some you like, some you try to avoid, some are nice, some maybe not so much but there are a select few that have become like family over the years and I’m not sure what my life would be like without seeing them every day.

Hate coffee?!? :eck: ... Lol! Its my favourite drink ever!
I know it’s probably surprising and I do get a lot of interesting reactions to it. No one can believe it.
 

DallasFanForever

Telly Talk Supreme
I even like iced-coffee, coffee cake, coffee chocs etc...
You certainly love ur coffee! I do like coffee ice cream though. Probably the only coffee flavored thing I’ll eat.

Do you drink tea instead DFF?
I love tea, especially iced tea. It’s a weakness of mine.

We often get to see the snow and freezing temperatures in New York on our news, wow they do get it bad there.
It seems like it’s getting worse up there every year. At least that’s what my family tells me.
 

DallasFanForever

Telly Talk Supreme
Someone once told me that whatever weather New York has .. we usually follow with similar weather a week or two later, not sure how true this is?
I’ve never heard this but we should definitely keep an eye on it this winter to see if it’s indeed true. When my family is buried up to their shoulders I can definitely alert you to get ready LOL

:coffeelaugh: : ... are you saying I talk too much?
Oh, I would never admit to saying that Lashes!

I'm terrible because I find sarcasm very funny, in fact I think its my favourite type of humour :giggle: so I would be laughing too.
It’s my favorite type of humor too. And from what I’m told I’m quite good at it. But I think it’s healthy, as long as it doesn’t go too far, of course, and is kept respectful.
 

Long Lashes

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I’m very lucky. It’s like any place. Some you like, some you try to avoid, some are nice, some maybe not so much but there are a select few that have become like family over the years and I’m not sure what my life would be like without seeing them every day.
I get what you mean. I have a couple of life long friends thanks to work. Some people are easier to work with than others but I'm one for teamwork, anyone who doesnt want to do that and pull their weight quickly loses my respect.



I do like coffee ice cream though. Probably the only coffee flavored thing I’ll eat.
Oh my goodness I've never tried Coffee flavoured ice-cream :eck: not sure its even available over here.

When I've finished on here I'm going to do some investigating as to where I can get coffee ice-cream, glad you mentioned that DFF :D


I love tea, especially iced tea. It’s a weakness of mine.
I like tea too, but prefer coffee. You're right though, iced tea is delicious.


t seems like it’s getting worse up there every year. At least that’s what my family tells me.
How long does the snow usually last for in New York .. if I may be so nosey? :lol:

Such extreme weather must be difficult to live with, I grumble all the time about our weather, but I can only remember being literally snowed in (unable to leave home) about 4 times in my life, I found that quite scary because if we couldn't get out then I realised emergency vehicles wouldn't be able to get to us if we needed them, sometimes I do too much thinking ... lol!


t’s my favorite type of humor too. And from what I’m told I’m quite good at it. But I think it’s healthy, as long as it doesn’t go too far, of course, and is kept respectful.
I think if the joke is on us then there's nothing wrong with sarcasm. Some people find it hard to laugh at themselves, but I'm always doing it.
 

DallasFanForever

Telly Talk Supreme
I have a couple of life long friends thanks to work
You know, I used to hate it when people I work with would say we’re all like family. I just didn’t think that was ever true but I found out I was wrong in recent years, that’s for sure.

. Some people are easier to work with than others
I don’t think truer words have ever been spoken

I'm one for teamwork, anyone who doesnt want to do that and pull their weight quickly loses my respect.
I feel the same. I can’t stand laziness. I feel stay home if you don’t want to work. And I’ve said it a few times.
 

DallasFanForever

Telly Talk Supreme
When I've finished on here I'm going to do some investigating as to where I can get coffee ice-cream, glad you mentioned that DFF :D
I hope you find it over there cause I really think you’ll love it!

How long does the snow usually last for in New York .. if I may be so nosey? :lol:
I remember it lasting for what felt like forever when I lived up there. It would turn to ice and it seemed like it stayed that way for weeks. But of course we were in the mountains.

Such extreme weather must be difficult to live with, I grumble all the time about our weather, but I can only remember being literally snowed in (unable to leave home) about 4 times in my life
In all the years we lived up there I can only remember being snowed in for days at a time once. The town was very good about plowing the streets and they even plowed our driveway for us cause it was a long one. We couldn’t shovel it ourselves.
 

DallasFanForever

Telly Talk Supreme
I found that quite scary because if we couldn't get out then I realised emergency vehicles wouldn't be able to get to us if we needed them, sometimes I do too much thinking ... lol!
No, ur not overthinking that. It can be quite scary. Unfortunately, people die waiting for help in those situations quite often.

I think if the joke is on us then there's nothing wrong with sarcasm. Some people find it hard to laugh at themselves, but I'm always doing it.
I laugh at myself all day. If I didn’t I’d probably go nuts.
 

Biggie

Telly Talk Hero
Oh lucky you, I would've loved to have seen Britannia .. just to see how the other half live :lol: where you able to go on board and have a nosy?
If memory serves, at the time Britannia was being use as space for events and she was hove to as to public access to be nosy. But she is impressive.

I quite like the sound of mad Helen :giggle: I bet she's great company.
Helen was first rate company. Mad as a bag chips but good company none the less. The street, actually it's a cul-de-sac, that Dear Mama, Big Sister and I moved to in 2001 is where Helen grew up. Her mother Ann became a family friend... I would sit up from laying on the sofa where I was trying to get my shit together following an all night session in which ever London nightclub I was shaking booty in. I would be laying on the sofa all day and everyone knew not to bother me. But with Ann, I'd sit up to let her sit next to me. Ann was always understanding of my fragile condition and smiled sweetly as the sins of the night before were regaled.

Her daughter Helen was just a face that I just passed in street, eventually I heard she moved to Manchester to take up a new work opportunity.. From circa 2007 to 2017 Helen visited on an ad hoc basis tell by when her car was parked outside.

In the opening weeks of 2017 Ann's cancer returned, more aggressive than in 2014/15. By June Helen had moved back to Basingstoke, back to the road she was born into, to look after Ann. We started to say "hi" in passing, soon exchanging platitudes, and eventually started dating. Sadly Ann passed in the second week of December 2017.

Helen was living in Edinburgh and other than Ann, had no real ties to Basingstoke. My life is in B'stoke and I had no reason sufficient to make me uproot. So we parted ways half way through 2018. She let the house she inherited and returned to Edinburgh.
 

Long Lashes

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I hope you find it over there cause I really think you’ll love it!
Well blow me down! You'll never guess where I found Coffee Ice-cream? ... only in TESCOS where I go every week ...

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Why have I not noticed this before? I now have a tub of this in our freezer, but DFF whatever you do, don't tell anyone else in my house that I have some
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.. its for me and me alone ;)





I remember it lasting for what felt like forever when I lived up there. It would turn to ice and it seemed like it stayed that way for weeks. But of course we were in the mountains.
Did you get used to the harsh weather and did your cars have snow tyres on? When we get freezing weather for any length of time the country goes into chaos because we're never prepared for it.



laugh at myself all day. If I didn’t I’d probably go nuts.
Me too! :D

Hope you've had a good week my friend? not long until Thanksgiving now, will you get some days off work?
 

Long Lashes

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Helen was first rate company. Mad as a bag chips but good company none the less.
She does sound great company with a unique personality.


The street, actually it's a cul-de-sac, that Dear Mama, Big Sister and I moved to in 2001 is where Helen grew up. Her mother Ann became a family friend... I would sit up from laying on the sofa where I was trying to get my shit together following an all night session in which ever London nightclub I was shaking booty in. I would be laying on the sofa all day and everyone knew not to bother me. But with Ann, I'd sit up to let her sit next to me. Ann was always understanding of my fragile condition and smiled sweetly as the sins of the night before were regaled.
Ann sounds special too :) its always good to have someone who instantly understands you.



In the opening weeks of 2017 Ann's cancer returned, more aggressive than in 2014/15. By June Helen had moved back to Basingstoke, back to the road she was born into, to look after Ann. We started to say "hi" in passing, soon exchanging platitudes, and eventually started dating. Sadly Ann passed in the second week of December 2017.
I'm so sorry about Ann, (cancer is an absolute swine) , she sounded like a very understanding person.



Helen was living in Edinburgh and other than Ann, had no real ties to Basingstoke. My life is in B'stoke and I had no reason sufficient to make me uproot. So we parted ways half way through 2018. She let the house she inherited and returned to Edinburgh.
Its such a shame she couldn't stay around for longer.

Thank you @Biggie for telling us all this, it was good of you. Both Ann and Helen sound like very special people :)
 
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