What was JR and Miss Ellie's relationship?
In my opinion, JR was a victim of emotional indifference by Miss Ellie
Miss Ellie favored both Gary and Bobby ahead of JR
Miss Ellie enabled Jock being extra tough on JR
JR probably sought multiple women because he was trying to fill that gap
of denied motherly love, as a psychologist might say.
Miss Ellie was content to live a life of wealth and influence while being willfully ignorant
of Jock's business practices, which he taught to JR
She then chastised both of them when it suited her
Miss Ellie formed a friendship/relationship/marriage with Clayton,
a man who tried to take away JR's wife and son
Miss Ellie did disgrace Jock's memory by giving a Ewing birthright (half of it) to Clayton
and then cutting JR out completely by giving all of it to Bobby.
I don't consider Miss Ellie to be a good, honorable person
I see her as a bad mother and a hypocrite and self-serving