This was always going to be difficult to add up because some scenes overlap with other scenes that members have voted on. So with that in mind I’ve (or I hope I have) managed to narrow it down as close as I can. Mastectomy will appear a couple of times because some members voted on the episode title alone and not any particular scene.
So here goes….
14 voted on 69 scenes with Miss Ellie
1. Showdown at San Angelo = 67
2. Acceptance and the China gets it = 57
3. The Shotgun scene with Ray = 53
4. Ellie & Cliff’s shoebox Scene = 31
5. As long as he´s alive, he´s alive! / I gave you up too soon, JR. = 27
6. Ellie's speech about Jock at the Oil Baron's Ball = 24
7. Ewings are unbeatable = 22
8. Ellie reads part of the letter (My pretty little girl) = 18
9. If I Get Sick = 16
10. Ellie Finds Jock’s Belt / Ellie’s Speech about Bobby at Oil Baron’s Ball / Mastectomy 1 & 2 = 15
11. Knocking Sense into Jock & JR = 14
12. Sue Ellen finds Ellie Drunk = 13
13. Oh Sue Ellen, But You Are Drunk / Ellie & Pam Scene at Oil Baron’s Ball = 12
14. Donna Persuades Ellie to Take Down Portrait / Dr danvers explaining all about her surgery / When They Couldn’t Find Jock / Ellie Tries to Persuade Pam to Sell Bobby’s Shares / She tells JR and Bobby never to mention Jock's name to her again. = 10
15. You’re a Ewing, Ray / Mastectomy part 2 and breaking down with Jock / Ellie & Pam, before she’s about to marry Mark / You destroyed her (Sue Ellen) again JR” / Ellie discuss intimacy with Clayton / The one in The Early Years where she comes to Jock's hotel room / Scene after Jock’s Heart Attack = 9
16. You've neglected that girl since the day you brought her home / Ellie takes down the portrait / If you refuse it, refuse it because the gift is small / Miss Ellie gives Bobby advice when Pam is sick and at the hospital / The scene where she goes to McKay / When she visits Pam after bobby died = 8
17. She announces to the Family that she intends to break Jock's will / Welcomes Bobby & Pam / I’m Jock’s Woman / The scene where she is in JR's office waiting for him to come in = 7
18. Ellie Reminisces with Jamie / Horse whip scene with Pam / Scene where she comforts Sue Ellen = 6
19. I hope nobody gave you something old, Pam / Forgiving Jock about Amanda / Scene where john Ross sits in Jock’s chair / Horse whip scene with Cally / Clayton’s lost memory / Heart to heart with John Ross – 5
20. Telling Clayton why she called off the wedding / Shutting up Marilee Stone and Linda Bradlee / I am not tarnishing his memory. Don't you SAY THAT to me! / Ellie & Clayton romance / Mastectomy 1 / Letter from Jock = 4
21. I want you out of Southfork, Clayton / Rebecca, remember others have tried to come up against the Ewings and failed! / Ellie finds Clayton at Amy’s grave / Her bedside vigil when Digger was passing away / I think it's time that Southfork repaid those debts / Mastectomy 2 = 3
22. Ellie & JR visit the Cartell / I understand your reasons, but I detest your methods / The scene with Christopher in the kitchen where Pam is missing = 2
23. Permission to ruin the reputation of the finest man / Miss Ellie's scene with Digger when he brought her flowers / The scene where Lucy returns / scene with Miss Ellie on her sexercycle = 1